Unappreciative/ignorant husbands

Hey guys I just really need to vent this out to people who might understand. So my husband is great at gifts but not much beyond that. He thinks that buying me stuff will make me forgive and forget. I’m getting really sick of it. I will be taking care of household tasks (cooking, cleaning, stuff with the baby/animals etc) and he just tries to distract me or doesn’t help. He is so ignorant to the things around him it’s beyond annoying. Most recently I was making something I was really excited about when nature called. I went to the bathroom and when I came back he was sitting on his phone while it was burning 5 ft away from him. I know it was my responsibility but like if it was the other way around I’d make sure his food or whatever was okay while he was gone. I’ve talked about this with him before so it’s so annoying. Ugh 🙄