Judgy doctors

I went to my appointment earlier this week, and we have 3 doctors we see on rotation, and i was super excited about going because i was gonna get to see my favorite doctor. When he came into the room he asked me how i was doing and i told him i was exhausted, and he goes well what do you expect in the most annoyed tone. Mind you, i have a 6 month old, and we had a whoopsie so im having Irish twins, yay, but the whole time im there he’s forcing his opinion on me in regards to birth control which i don’t want because my body doesn’t react well with it and quite frankly im about to be in my 30s and i dont want anymore children, and he was absolutely opposed to listening to me talk about wanting to snip tie remove do whatever to my tubes. Like, isn’t it about what i want? Between my partner and i, this will be our 3 kid, and we don’t want anymore. Sorry for the long rant, no one else seems to understand how frustrating it is to have a doctor that seems judgy and doesn’t listen to what you want as a patient