I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Mine also has silent reflux and was the same until about 5 months. I ended up distracting her with baby programs on my I pad and nursery rhymes. We also bought a more upright car seat. Hope this helps. She still has severe reflux but she now sleeps most car rides.
Yes that’s the toy!
Oh amazing @Val thank you!!
I bought a little Seaquarium toy to attach to the headrest and my baby loves it. It plays music and has cute lights and toys