Pretty normal, I'd say! Your priorities have changed and your life is much busier. I'm going back to work now after my second and at the moment it's about survival. I'll put up with quite a lot from work because it pays the bills. I'm sure my ambition will come back a bit in the next year or two but right now I'm working to live rather than the other way around. It's the same for my husband.
100%! I am not looking forward to returning from mat leave simply because I am so obsessed with this little potato 😍 before leaving for leave, I was talking to my manager about a senior role haha and now I'm like I can't wait to just coast so I have more time for him
It sounds like you're already doing a lot of work being Mum & on your own?! Thats A LOT and not to be underestimated! Take it easy on yourself, give yourself grace.You're already working hard!
💯 in the same boat here! X
Well, you got to remember that your hormones are crazy and all over the place, especially like the 1st year after having your child, especially if you are breastfeeding. Your momma bear is in high alert, and you just want to take care of and protect your little one. Trust me, I have been raising my son alone, and that instinct will kid back in. Just takes some time, and now that you're a mom, your goals in life will change, and things that used to be important just don't matter at all.