Any advice am I paranoid or right?
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I mean only you can answer this because I feel what’s a man in a relationship doing on any dating app when they have someone. If and him are okay with talking to other people while in the relationship but if he’s the only one you talk with. I don’t think that’s fair because what are you looking for on these apps. If he hasn’t cheated he’s definitely thinking of it! Ijs
deffo cheating
When my partner is bored he goes for a run or out fishing, he doesn’t go on dating apps. This isn’t normal behaviour for someone who is just “bored”. Don’t let him downplay it!
Bffr 😂😭
In all honesty the evidence is there right in your face. These men know what they’re doing when they’re doing it and will straight up lie to your face because they don’t wanna get caught. We can all comment the obvious but you already know this. Trust me I have been exactly in your shoes this time last year. You gotta do what you think is best but the more you let a man disrespect you, the more it’ll happen. Just remember if they were sorry, it wouldn’t have happened. I’m sorry to be so blunt and I know you’re probably hurting, I’m just being real with you. you got this ❤️
You’re not paranoid. He was biding his time. You just caught him out earlier than he anticipated.
“I’m sorry for being a curious guy” what?! He’s talking like “I can’t help myself for what I do, I have no free will” This is such a classic line these days. “I’m bored, I wanted to see for myself, I was curious about the app” 🤮 Find yourself a guy who has a hobby to keep him occupied because cheating is not a hobby! Tell that grown man to do research on how to weld or dirt bike or fix your car or smoke meat! Do research on D&D or LEGOs or having the best grass in the neighborhood. And most importantly, do some research on how to build a happy healthy loving relationship with the woman he’s currently in a monogamous relationship with!
Just cause you don’t see messages doesn’t mean he didn’t delete them
Also him buying only fans and watching porn is a red flag and shows he’s bored of you cause why would you want to get off to another person when I’m here idk just don’t sit right with me
I agree. He could easily delete anything that went further than “platonic” conversation. Left those just in case you found out.
Not paranoid. He's cheating and lying about it. He'll just do it again if you let it go and stay.
He’s definitely cheating He just wants to have his cake and eat it to run away he’s only sorry he got caught
A man that chooses YOU WANTS YOU Doesn't get bored and go on dating apps....🚩🚩🚩🚩 He's not your person But you probably already know that just like us all but wanna have hope still sigh
He’s trying to get out of it. I don’t think that was the reason at all. You deserve better
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My ex never went on dating sites that I know of but he would call his ex behind my back and tell her he loved her, missed her etc., It's true what the previous women said. The more you let situations like these slide, the more they test to see what they can get away with. I let a lot slide in the beginning and the disrespectful things he would do just grew and grew. I haven't met a man yet who truly chooses me but I ended up deciding not to settle for crumbs
I’m not buying it
Noooo this is not right. And for it to be multiple sites? No maam. I’d be out like a light 💡.
In my opinion, if he is willingly going on these apps regardless if it's "curiousity" or not, if he has the accounts he has bad intentions, know your worth, you are a beautiful woman who deserves to be treasured
Lame ass excuses I would not believe him
Porn is a big no no to me, if a man feels the need to look at and watch other women get off, he’s full of lust and will 100% cheat given the chance. It looks like he was definitely trying to find a way to do something behind your back. And I’m so glad you’ve caught him… now knowing what you know, I hope you make the decision that is best for you. ❤️ because you deserve better than to have a little boy who’s “curious” about another woman’s body.
Men are dogs I’m so sorry
Boredom is not an excuse girl. My husband would never just because he was “bored”. He was definitely intentionally looking for someone(s), but didn’t pursue it because of his guilty conscience. He has opened the door for other interests outside of his relationship and this is a sign of cheating. Sorry.