Anyone else mourning their old life!?

It's really syncing in that my life has changed forever all of a sudden. My partner and I used to have really active schedules, always having things on and things to look forward to, and I feel like all of a sudden it's a realisation that life will never be like that again. I'm not sure how I'm feeling about it all, I really don't. I'm of course so grateful for my baby coming, but I really do feel like I'm mourning my old life

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All the time I appreciate and adore my baby boy but the fact life is going to change in 2 months upsets me in a way x

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I'm going on 37 years of age and okay with the transition. I think the change in life style will be different for my hubby and I.

I can see he is already having challenges... for example, we go out for date night - we really can't try anything exotic cause I don't know how I'm going to react. When out for drinks, there is only so much lemonade I can drink... so he has lost his drinking buddy. Its the small thing that's making him realise that bigger changes will need to be made down the line.

But yes, also mourning my soon to be past life. On the flip side, looking forward to creating new life that includes a baby in it.

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So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

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Is it normal to crave my partners 🍆 in me but not sexually

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Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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Any mamas looking for a bestie

Hello mamas,

I have lost alot of friendships the last year and 4 months my babygirl meand the world to me but I would love to talk to some other mamas and hopefully find a bestie that doesnt mind me not responding quickly but will also be keen to call or meet up I'm based in Christchurch, New Zealand. A bonus if you dont mind ranting from me and also might have a partner that could get along with my fiance

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Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

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Proud mom💕

First day in public wearing underwear & no accidents! We had a play date at my friend house even though I took her about every 1 or 2 hours its the fact she stayed dry, & poop as well💗

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