@Misty Buckner-Scott your in a different state than I am
Thatās not enough for them to loose their rights, however they need to get their properties lined out quickly
Iām a bit confused on the beginning timeline. So the apartment was spotless clean before they left to have their baby and only within the 2-4 days they were in the hospital having baby, the roommate had the place smelling like dog and cat piss and shit bad enough that CPS took the baby away? How many animals are in that apartment? Roommate had to of been working really hard to ensure the cat and dog peed and pooped on everything if it only happened within a 2-4 day timeframe if thatās the caseā¦
@Lauren roommate had 2 dogs and 2 cats and he doesn't clean the kitty litter nor take out the pup from the kennel so resulting in the apartment selling bad
@Siedah they was told they have up to a year to get everything in order to get their baby back and now being told a monthš which makes no since dcfs worker is not answering his phone it's just silence from them
Phew, thatās too many animals in such a small space anyway. Poor things. That roommate should be reported for animal neglect 100%. Thereās been times my husband (during my pregnancy) has forgotten to clean out the cat box for a whole week and only on the 6th or 7th day does it really smell bad. With 2 cats though I could definitely see how it would get way smellier way quicker, especially if they share a cat box- which they shouldnāt be- two cats should have at minimum two boxes and then if ya donāt empty it some cats just start peeing and pooping anywhere but the box 𤢠luckily our cat doesnāt do that when we forget. Yuck! With that type of roommate though that would have not been a good environment or person to bring a newborn into or near. Have they looked into any income based housing/apartments? There also may be programs in the area that can help them with baby costs as well as provide free or discounted legal guidance for the CPS issue. Most of these programs you gotta look for
Cause the programs arenāt exactly advertised so you gotta google them to actually find them. May be worth posting an anonymous Facebook post on an area specific moms group to see if anyone has any ideas on how to help their situation.
Why would you not moving result in them losing their son? Your post is confusing
@Lauren with the income base housing they signed up for it it's a whole waiting list so it can go up to 5 years here, best bet for us is look for a place to either rent or buy it in cash whole, my credit is good 7 something and the only problem is the money and jobš
@Allie cause they want them to have a place for themselves instead of them living with someone š
This isnāt how it works. I have worked with social services for years and understand the system very well. Thereās way more to the story. They would not remove the child from the home this quickly or due to this one situation.
@Lotus šŖ· they both been in foster not sure if it goes into play or not, and the fiance is on social security so also not sure if it goes into play either𤷠also something about mentally unstable but they are past that, today found out that fiance mom was just drunk and just talking crapš my bff and me both agreed that he needs to cut his family offš¬ and he hasn't done that
Iāve seen social services try to take babies from good homes over bs that is legal in most states now which is just wrong I signed my son over to my mother when he was 18 months old bc I wasnāt fit to take care of him I was strung out homeless jobless worthless piece of scum, fast forward ten years Iām sober with my current husband and 23 days after I gave birth they tried to come take my newborn away over pot, nope
I got sober other than 420 during my pregnancy my babies have saved me twice from my own self destruction and I canāt go thru that again even tho I made that decision then I was a totally different person at that time they gna hafta fight me to get these girls
Iāll have all yāall in my thoughts I especially have the momma in my heart rn if yāall were closer I could guide better but I think youāre pretty far away