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I have three step kids two of which live in a different state. My 18 year old SS and I have a great relationship and we speak often. My SD and I don’t really know each other because her mom hasn’t let my husband talk to her really up until last month. And I have an 11 year old SS who stays with us half of the week and his mom the other half and unfortunately unless I’m buying him something or taking him to do something he doesn’t have much to do with me and thinks I mean because I set rules in my house that his mom doesn’t have at her house.
@Amber I agree with the mom part! That’s real.
@Katie I have a 12yo sd and 15yo sd, the 15yo is decent but will annoy me sometimes or recently has been saying that I am gaslighting her because she can… but it’s not constant attitude.
I have a 16 SD. I've been struggling for years 😂. I missed out on the fun parenting years before all the attitude. I have a 7 month old, so it's a weird experience of going from having to parent a teen to a baby in a matter of seconds. Then sprinkle all the baby momma drama on top.
@Kailee just wait it gets fun 😂🙃
It’s the gaslighting that throws me every day like I have eyes! 🤦🏾♀️
@Katie so I’ve been in their lives since they were young. I’ve been through it. And been with them and done more for them then their own mom… and yet they still worship the ground there mother walks on…
@Louella yep.. today I asked for a water bottle that I knew I had in the back seat and the 15yo tried to gaslight me that it wasn’t there and oh your gaslighting me… I was like really?! And then my mil gave it to me…
@Kailee I swear she still wants my man cuz a lot of the things she does it’s like, “for what?” Like we met up with her after coming back from a road trip to exchange the kids and she made it a point to tell him “oh I’m trying to have another baby” when I wasn’t around mind you. I had taken my own daughter into the gas station to use the restroom and when I came out she was holding our son which honestly pissed me off and I wanted to snatch him back so bad 😅
@Amber oh ya I feel like bm is super jealous of how successful my husband is. But she did it to herself, she always wanted to just be a stay at home mom. The things they do though and try and hide it but it’s bluntly obvious.
@Kailee that part! It’s weird cuz I’ve noticed that I’ll make a Facebook post, she sees it, and then makes a similar post but she never gets as many reactions as I do
@Amber you have her on social media? Lol she has my husband blocked and I don’t want her and her negativity on my Facebook.
@Kailee unfortunately I do 😒 lol
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@Amber lol I feel bad for you!
@Amber do you choose or have to for whatever reason?
@Kailee initially it was because my man and I had split but our girls still wanted to play together, which is what she stated when she friended me in the first place. Now I’m sure it was really because she wanted to see me in despair or something and honestly he was just all over my page trying to get me back at that time. Now it’s been too long it’d be weird if I just suddenly disappeared from her list. But honestly though, I don’t really care because I know who I am and what I stand for and I have always had “fans” when all I do is be myself.
@Amber that makes sense. Sounds like a mess though. But you could also silence her lol so she’s not all over your page and you don’t see her. And your not unfriending her
@Kailee that’s true I actually forgot we could do that. But I don’t see her pop up on my feed too often and it usually tickles me because you can sense the desperation for attention and approval seeping through the post. People associate with me purely because I’m a genuine person even years after we’ve been in each others lives directly
I have a 13 year old SS and it’s definitely frustrating with his attitude at times and his mom doesn’t help