Stop asking how long it took people to get pregnant

I don’t know if this has happened to anyone else but I’ve had a couple people ask me how long it’s taken me to get pregnant and it took us 4 months and when people say they have been struggling for years then ask me. I feel bad saying but a lot of people stop talking to me because of it. The last lady I spoke to we had really good conversation quite a bit in common and then as soon as she asks me she stops talking to me. Tried to reach out but nothing
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If they are asking the question they should be able to handle the answer. As someone who struggled for 10 years with infertility I know that it is a hard road but you can't fault someone else for something you have gone through. We are all different.

It's probably not personal although it feels that way. There's a lot of trauma that comes with fertility issues. She's looking to bond over that shared experience. If she's resentful then you don't need that energy in your life anyway

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