The strength it takes to overcome addiction isn't something to sell yourself short over. Like you said lots of people don't quit using at all. Be proud of who you've become and use your experience as a learning opportunity and lessons to teach your boy in the future. I'm 23 and having a boy too! Congratulations!
@Reese thank you! I feel proud of myself for how much I changed and it’s really for the better and I feel very blessed but the guilt just gets me that I feel I wasn’t the best person to get pregnant but now I haven’t vaped at all since 17 weeks I never smoked a cigarette knowing I was pregnant or took drügs since finding out either so the only reason I kept the vape was because I couldn’t let me old self go but now I realise it was the worst version of myself! And I’m happy I let go! I’ve made a conscious effort to change for my son!! Also congratulations!! Your bump is soooo beautiful with those tattoos holy fuck it looks awesome!! 😍🫶🏻
Congratulations on making the life changes your baby needs! You’re a great mom already!! My first was a boy too when I was 24. He’s so wonderful. You’re gonna love being a boy mama !! 🫶🏻
Thank you so much anon ❤️
Yes baby boy changed my life already. I’m 36 weeks. I was also doing ❄️ and smoking and drinking and I sought therapy and got my ducks in row for this little man. BD was no help and yes most of my pregnancy was not how I wanted things to be but things are turning around. Evil has no choice but to flee 🫶
I also want to say he’ll have a very loving home! Also I’m just a rare case of someone who fell into that life as I’m very fortunate enough to have come from a stable family in which no one has addictions and live in a nice area! I chose that life myself and fell into that style which makes it all the more shameful as I was brought up away from it and still fell that way as opposed to being surrounded by it. But I’m saying that because it means my boy will also be brought up away from it and I will not be going back there as I’m aware of how lucky I was to escape it as well as letting you all know I don’t have people who use as my surroundings making my support system stronger ensuring my boys safety! I’m so excited to be a mum I really am 🫶🏻