To the stepmoms triggered by my post
Show your support
& to be incognito.. seems like your intention is to get a negative reaction going in all this. You’re right to some degree.. how you’re going about it is completely wrong tho
@Bianca like I said take it or leave it 🤷♀️
& like I said you’ll probably keep getting triggered. Not the right community for you, take it or leave it girl. Find your healing
You ( incognito) worried about everybody but the kids is concerning! Get counseling if this continues to bother you to the point that you added a group that has to do with step parents,which clearly you are not! Or Seek God he helps everybody!
I’m dying at these responses 😩💀
@Isa @Bianca check out my latest post with solution-focused support. You might find some gems 😉
Hahaha thank you
Uh oh! I think this group has been infiltrated either by a non step mom or someone who is just tragically insensitive to what some of these step moms are going through. Every single one of the women in this group are in different stages of very diverse situations. Though it’s great that you (incognito) feel you’ve healed yourself to the point of being above the women who use this group as a place to vent about their struggles to other women who can relate and sympathize with them in a way that many (or most) of us don’t have IRL. I can personally say, I know almost no stepmothers, and the one that i do know is in a drastically different situation than I am. This group has been a haven to me on nights where I struggle the most.
Sometimes, being a stepmom seems like the easiest thing in the world to me. Other times, I wonder wtf I got myself into. When I feel that way, this group makes me feel like I’m not alone, gives me guidance, and allows me a place to vent. If we were all the stepmoms you think we should be, really what would we even talk about in this group? While stepmom podcasts are a great resource and can certainly inspire us to be the best stepmoms we can be, it’s only healthy to be able to vent about our struggles to people who can actually respond to us. I’m an avid listener of Jaime’s podcast myself and I know she’s mentioned many times that she’s had countless ups and downs as a stepparent. She’s didn’t get into this enlightened, she’s still on a journey just like the rest of us.
I don’t think your posts got the reaction you thought they would…or maybe they did, otherwise perhaps you’d feel more confident to post not as incognito. Either way, we all wish you love and support on your journey and if you ever need a place to vent, we would never shame you for doing so :)
@Mary this is Peanut lol I been here for a bit. Not surprised at all! I’ve put posts up like this before and got similar reactions. People were calling me a Bitter ex wife! Lmao I was dying. But it’s whatevs that’s how Peanut is. My hope is that it gets through to at least someone who is struggling and to me that’ll be worth it 🙂
You seem triggered by your own insecurities in this. To tell this whole group to stop doing the same exact thing you’re trying to do… “passing judgement “ is crazy.