Hi mamas

Hi mama's I have a question would you allow your ex to take your child knowing he's living with his new girlfriend and you guys have only been split for almost 2 months I'm not trying to be bitter but at the same time with it being a new woman surroundings she's got 2 kids of her own I'm just not sure what to do like I'm not trying to be bitter but at the same time I just don't want any strange woman around her

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He is a parent as you are and is needing of time with his child. I'm sure your baby will be just fine❤️

You could def say you need to meet her at LEAST at the time of handing her over, I would need to meet if my child’s leaving my sight and isn’t a part of my fiancé or my family. To you that’s a stranger and it’s your child there should be understanding over at least meeting her

In some divorces, it’s not uncommon for there to be a rule that your child cannot stay with a parent’s new partner if they’ve been together less than 6 months. I think that’s not such a bad rule. I think it’s pretty reasonable for a new partner not to spend the night with a new child too, especially before a relationship with that child is established. That way your ex has a better idea of who his new gf is and also you can meet her as well before your child stays over.

No I wouldn’t allow it. If he’s having a relationship with her that’s his business, but if he’s trying to spend time with his kid then it should be left only at that. You don’t know the woman and if anything, will only be introduced to her if he thinks it’s a serious relationship. Just because they live together doesn’t mean crap honestly. They’re playing house together. Tell him that you’ll agree to him visiting the baby at your place, but as far as sleep overs, etc., nope!!!

No , don't know her intentions

I would at least say you want to meet her first before letting her meet your child.