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Bills for nursery/daycare/after school program and medical/dental insurance. If they're in extracurriculars, the fees for those.
I think that's it.

well she doesn’t go to private school anymore shes in public school.

shes not in any extracurricular activities rn

its a 14 yr old. He just abruptly stopped paying so i filed. But they asked for expenses im like huh she needs to eat n have clothes but i mean i cant technically proove that

This shit is confusing

They do a percentage (like 17%, from what I've read) for basic expenses (food, clothes, shelter).
If you don't have any other expenses besides just taking care of her like the private school, medical expenses, etc.. Then it doesn't count.
I mean, you can gather whatever you've spent and bring it with you to see if it's considered, it won't hurt to ask.