Baby Daddy drama

Baby Daddy thought I was cheating on him and kicked me out of the house with L.O DNA test shows I didn't but he moved the new girl into the house and hasn't even seen his daughter in almost 4 months and has been telling his mother he wants to be on the birth certificate. Between him and her are slandering my name and he gotten a wellness check on me saying "I'm not feeding/abusing my child" the social worker told me the house is clean and there's more than enough food for us two. For my to do a petition on him for child abandonment and neglect against him. We've been together for almost 13 years, he won't give me back my stuff, and he blocked me now, too. What should I do?

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Get a family lawyer that is horrible he abandoned you and your child! No

He manipulated the situation to push you out and make space for her. He was the one being unfaithful, and it likely wasn’t recent—her quick move-in suggests it had been ongoing. He was just looking for an excuse to make it happen. You can send the DNA results to his family if you feel it’s necessary, but you’re not obligated to. Instead, focus on going to court and filing for full custody, because until there’s a court order, he has equal parental rights. Prioritize yourself and your child, and don’t waste energy on him. If he wants to be involved in his child’s life, he can do so without involving you personally. However, he must show respect and stop making baseless accusations.

Personally i agree that you need to get a family lawyer. You need to work with them because the father should be giving you some financial support for the LO. Among the other issues, the family lawyer can assist you in what other options there are for both you and the baby.

To get your stuff back you can get an officer involved they will go with you to get your stuff

I would call or go to your local precient. Do you have mail going to the apartment? Is that the address on your license?

1. Call the police tell them he stole/ has all of your property. They can escort you there or meet you there to gather your things. If your property is good, you can either for a police report and or small claims court. 2. You can file a petition for full custody and list the things above. 3. Add child support to that petition. 4. Any dna questions can be easily solved by the court! 5. I pray you are living somewhere safe and have a lot of support. It can be really hard to get through challenging times alone.

Like everyone said you can get the police to get your stuff back. My sister had to do that with one of her ex boyfriends(no kids ) nor did she live with him. Then take him to court! And keep all communication with him to a minimum

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