Circumstantial or cheater ?

So recently my husband been having a lot going on which makes me think he's cheating while he's saying he's not that this is all circumstantial 1 l went through his phone to see his brother been sending him nudes of other females as well as trading butt pics and instagrams of other females 2 recently he's been messaging girls on Snapchat and set his messages up to automatically delete there was one girl he sent something too that reacted to whatever he sent when I asked him what was it about at first he lied and said he hasn't been texting anyone then changed it to she accidentally tagged the wrong person in a post and he was informing her of that 3 this week someone I assume is a woman texted him this "I bought a lot of seafood. Can we have dinner together tomorrow night 🥰" he is saying he doesn't know this person and that it's one of those bots that try to scam you but when I texted the number back it came up as an iPhone 4 l recently was on his Facebook and found that he has been searching up all these women profiles and stuff like everyday and then when I would check if they had messages there weren't any except for one where he deleted whatever he sent her and all I could see her reply which was" aweeee 👀👀" so please tell me am I tripping or is this Valid
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100% valid. You got a LOT of evidence...

And I'm very sorry about the situation you're in... this is awful. You deserve respect and he's not respecting you.

I'm sorry. Completely valid. MAYBE if it was ONE of those things. But particularly altogether, it sounds as though he's completely gaslighting you and disrespecting your marriage. If open to it, I'd seek counseling asap.

So valid! Listen to your gut and intuition. Hopefully he is open to having honest conversation that is respectful to you and your marriage Good luck!!

Valid. He's lying. The fact that he's deleting messages automatically isn't a đźš©, it's a đźš©đźš©đźš©đźš©đźš© parade. This isn't how a faithful married man acts.

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