How do u go from a family to a young single mum

Last night I found he cheated on me..again. The whole entire relationship, pregnancy and since the baby has been here he’s been begging other girls for nudes and all I find is girls racked up on his phone with their flaps out. He knew it was his last chance and he’s begging for me to stay. Our situation is so hard as I moved 200 miles away from everything I knew to be with him. Not only that but we got evicted so we are staying at his parents. I have no where else to go with the baby. I can’t move back as my parents house is too small, I want to get my own place but I have no money since I left my job bc of pregnancy, and I can’t stay with him. How on earth do u do it? The respect I have for single mums is insane but if anyone’s been in a similar situation to me I’d love to hear. I’m only 20, no money, no family or friends and now no father to my baby. I’m so scared
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Hey girl, I’m so sorry you are going through this. And especially being young and im sure it’s scary but take a breather don’t overwhelm yourself the situation is already a lot. Have grace with yourself. Everything will work out how it should🩷 if you need someone to talk to or vent I’m all ears🫶🏼

You gotta get creative baby girl, you may have more support than you know, once I started speaking my truth and told people what I was going thru meaning family and friends , doors opened Your parents place may be too small but is the support there because you can stack money if they're helping you with baby and peace of mind is priceless There are so many govt resources depending which region of the earth you live Look into all your resources He will always beg gurl mine was on his hands and knees Be strong because he knows there's no consequences and will keep cheating on you if you stay

Go with the flow, I’m 21 and have a 3 year old and a nine month old. Best thing ever was staying away from their dad.

Try home finder if your in UK or get on your councils housing to start bidding for property

We have tons of resources here if you’re in the USA and keep ya head up

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