Do I take him back đŸ€”

I honestly don't know what to do. Me and ex broke up around 3 months ago after I found out he took coke on a weekend with his friends (more than one occasion) and had been messaging another girl. I just felt like I was plodding along in life so I left with our 1 yo Since then he's been great at coparenting and we have been really civil and it's been going fine. A few weeks ago he started suggesting we try again, making a lot of effort with me (not just our baby) and apologising for all his wrong doing. Says he realises and has changed. Anyway had the conversation about the past few months apart. Turns out he's slept with someone - a 1 night stand and made him realise how much he wants me and his family back. I just don't know what to think to be honest. Maybe there was a small chance we could rekindle but the thought of him sleeping with someone else makes me feel completely different. Can anyone like this really change? I'm doing OK single and can manage well quite happily without him. However having our family back together does sound lovely, I just don't have a clue what to think or do I know only I can make this decision but just wanted a rant đŸ˜Ș
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Heya, I’m so sorry you’re going through this.. please feel free to message me if you’d like, I’m here if you’d like to talk x

Idk what you mean by anyone like this. He messaged someone (which is not okay btw), but he didn’t cheat on you. But if his coke using is a habit, then that’s different. I mean you can do as you please when you’re broken up, but if you can’t personally accept and move forward with this, don’t force it. Seems like what you guys have now is working

I have to agree, if you can't forgive and move forward then stay as ypu are as it's working. Break ups are always what if....afterwards. but there's always that reason why to start with. Process all of the information you have and see how you feel you can move forward if at all x

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