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I’ve never had a reason to go through my husband belongings but the other day im sick in bed and his ipad keeps dinging. I go to shut it off and messages of him and his co worker flirting. Im disgusted as he is the one that initiated it. He’s apologized countless times but im having a hard time getting over it. I have no one i can talk to about this.
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i’m so sorry you’re going through this. this is such a hard and personal decision. i’ve never personally been through this, but all i can say is there are so many good men out there that will treat you amazingly. i always tell everyone not to settle for less than what you deserve, and you definitely don’t deserve that at all. if you feel the relationship is worth salvaging, if it were me i would seek couples counseling to help try and rebuild the trust he broke. if you want to rant/vent you can message me!

I'm curious what the extent of flirting was because if he doing that shit at work he's too comfortable and I feel probably has done more you don't know about, like you don't shit where you eat! He's messy I never had a reason to look at mines either til a message came up from an ex that was questionable and the shit I found smdh!!!!! Way worse than I could've imagined, im not married tho but I put a hidden app on his phone and found even more that he deleted smh message me gurl

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