Mine never does and it pisses me tf off!
During the week when he can’t see me in person till later, I’ll send texts ranting about how much of a hard time I’m having and he’ll come home and take over for me and give me a break. On weekends, when we actually see each other more than a couple hours at night, he will instantly notice a mood switch and help
My husband participates in childcare and domestic labour. These are both of our responsibilities. I will just say, without judgement or negativity, please stop framing it as "helping", it's not. It's being a grown-up and responsible, respectful partner.
I think a man that can watch his partner go through struggle, stress and pain without doing anything to make it better is… idk. Without trying to talk too much about a relationship I don’t know, people naturally would want to help/take care of even make it easier for the person they love