I find the ‘sleep when the baby sleeps’ advice the biggest load of nonsense.. it’s impossible cuz you never know if they will nap for 2 mins or 2 hours!
I agree with the other posters. I only ever find getting partner and grandparents to help makes sense. It does get better but until then using a carrier has been my saving grace.
"sleep when the baby sleeps' is such bullshit advice because you have so much else to do! My friends and I always follow it with "clean when the baby cleans! Read when the baby reads! Walk when the baby walks!" Because like seriously when
Only way I am dealing with it is by having my partner/parents help, I can’t do everything! Otherwise I do one thing at a time and accept that the laundry won’t always be done and the flat won’t be as clean and that’s okay