Struggling with loss of identity.

I had a baby 18 months ago, and since then, I've really been struggling with the feeling of losing my identity. For some ridiculous reason, I feel like I have to change everything about myself in order to be a good mom. Why do I feel the need to do that? I feel like I used to be so cool, I have tattoos. I used to have piercings. I used to listen to heavy metal music. Now I cover myself up, take out all my piercings, and only listen to kid friendly music. And I actually really hate this. My self-image also deteriorated due to weight gain. I just feel so stuck and so incredibly depressed and I don't know what to do. Any advice?
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I struggle with the same thing ,messaged me and we can talk

I have struggled with this too, my heart goes out to you and my best advice is do whatever you can to feel like YOU whenever you can. Jam out to music YOU like when you’re in the car. Book that next tattoo appointment, take him with you to do things YOU enjoy! Leave him with someone you trust and go to the gym or get some weights and an at home bike machine (very cheap on facebook marketplace) and do that when he naps! Slowly but surely you will feel like YOU again.. sending love you got this 🫶🏼❤️

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