@Riley I’m just so exhausted. I’m trying everything. I tried to be more affectionate, thought it would change things, or how he acts towards me. As he mentioned before. But it’s just not working. He keeps googling non stop about how his head hurts. And how he has a concussion. But I know is off mood started while we were on holiday before this but it’s just getting worse.
maybe try getting him to a therapist. it kinda seems like he might be depressed. if it's not that then it might just be pure laziness.
This sounds sadly familiar! 😥 even if his head did hurt this sounds more like avoidance behaviour!?? He's acting all sick etc so that you have to pick up his slack? Not on at all!! 😠 and seeing as like you said everything money wise is all split 50/50 then he really needs to pull his socks up. You'd probably be better off on your own as at least you wouldn't have to parent a man child aswell xx
I’d say “you have a girlfriend” but even that is offensive to women because we get shit done Your husband is a sook and needs to grow up. This is not the behaviour of a man.
Sooo… he decided to help with putting the bed rail on to the other side. While he was on the bed I thought let me get my work clothes to the hallway so when I ‘sneak’ in the morning, I won’t wake up LO. So while I did this (literally was in the process of grabbing the clothes that was folded to put in the hallway) he hits his head on the rail. And starts complaining how it’s meant to be and death is calling him. And then of course blames me of why I’m dealing with clothes when he is putting the railing - that I should’ve helped. Well if he waited 30 seconds I would’ve helped anyway?! Or he should’ve just waited. So him starting to blame me just got to me suddenly and I said everything is my fault as usual. And now he got mad and went to the other room and I’m here crying. Just feel mentally exhausted
Your partner seems deeply disturbed
nah he's a bad husband. you pushed a child out of you and are expected to do everything. this idiot hit his head WEEKS AGO and is acting like he lost all 4 of his limbs. he's acting like a toddler, actually scratch that, I've met toddlers that behave better than that 🤦🏻♀️