Seeing everything 🙄

So my husband has a bank account set up and it's also connected to his business account, his mother helps him out by doing the books and whatnot. As it's connected to his personal, she can see everything. I have a card for the personal account in my name however don't have access to the app for the account. He reassured me that she doesn't look at his personal account as I get nervous having to spend the money on groceries and just normal shopping and her being able to see (I don't want to be that daughter in law "draining her poor boys money" 😂) She came over yesterday to see her grandchild and mentioned she saw money come out for house reno stuff and I knew there was no other reason for her to have checked his account. He's in his 30s, do I just have to stay in this situation with a man child, mommas boy forever?? Will he ever grow up? 😂😂
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Is there a way he is able to not allow access for his mom on the personal account? That's a bit over kill

Probably not without her having a bad reaction 😂😂

She shouldn't be able to see his bank account, very invasive of privacy and too controlling for me

Omg what is it with these MILs 😂😂 I’m a boy mama to a 9 month old and I feel I give him more space & privacy than most MILs! It’s so annoying. I would spend what you like between you and your partner as that’s your business. If she mentions it just say it’s our money we will do what we like !!

What’s his is yours. That’s marriage . Not knowing how much money you have or if he’s making good financial decisions gives him all the power and you none

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