I need a village right now...please
I have f***ed up...the father of my children and I didn't work out and he has since been involved only when he wants to be. I was with a guy for 9 months afterward who I thought I'd he with for a long time (my kids are 6 and 4 now by the way) and i made the stupid mistake of calling him a step-dad. I'm a young mom, I'm 24. That justifies nothing. I've been with this other guy for a year today and now I'm not sure if this relationship is what I want forever or healthy enough to last. But the problem is he lives with us and my kids are literally attached to him and his family. I didn't influence the step-dad thing. But my 6 year old started calling him dad ON HIS OWN. Please don't come by me for coaching, I didn't. My 4 year old does not. It'll break their heart if we break up. I feel like a complete failure if I leave this relationship and enter a new one and give them yet again another man figure in their life. What have I done! đ I have so much anger toward myself. I'm ready to stay in this relationship just for them.
Itâs hard on the kids but they do get through it, a happy mom is more important than anything. Whatever is best for you is best for your children