I’m sad

I’m sad and just feel like no one cares about me. I try to reach out to people and people respond minimally. I just feel like everyone is so busy with their own lives and I’m always the last thought. Idk I’m trying not to fall into the poor me attitude. My partner doesn’t call and I barely see them. My sister canceled coming for thanksgiving, my dad came but insulted me. I tried texting my friend about it and I barely got a response. I didn’t get a single “happy thanksgiving” text. I sent one because I thought heck if this year no one is going to think of me I should stop putting out the energy. I already have a complex or whatever about rejection and always feeling like an afterthought has not helped. Idk if I should do/care less about others and only invest time into people who invest time and are kind to me. I just feel like I’m always living my life going against the grain and doing my own life alone. But I want a family and friends for myself and my child. Maybe just holiday blues. My mom and grandma passed away, years ago. My cousins and unlce don’t want to celebrate holidays anymore. I wish I could give my son and myself something more. Oh and to add insult to injury, I started a mom meetup group(people were saying online they would come) only once a mom showed. I posted asking for someone to meetup for playdates, not a single person answered. Every post I’ve ever seen in that group had responses. I just feel like a more public loser after doing that. I guess I would rather be a private lonely loser

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I'm so sorry you're experiencing this I definitely can relate and I would advise invest your time and energy into people who invest theirs into you 💜

Happy late Thanksgiving...u can text me if u want...I used to be where u at but I'm learning to love from a distance n I can create my own support system for my family

You can text me as well 🤗

I’m sorry you’re going through this, very relatable also, hang in there! Happy thanksgiving.

I'm in a similar situation! ❤️

Aws so sorry to hear…. It sounds like you are going threw it and could use some support… wondering if you have a therapist or would be interested? I have a therapist and it helps ALOT to have someone to talk to and help me navigate relationships and motherhood etc.

@Nicole I do have a therapist but because I have no sitter I have to take my little one sometimes or do e appointments which always are interrupted so I can’t talk about thing’s directly. Its not been tremendously helpful as of late but I still keep trying

To be honest my therapist I feel like has moved into a mother role with me at times, I can see on her face when she doesn’t agree with something I said. And also she has very firm beliefs on things that seem outdated. She is not very good with disordered eating she does treat body dysmorphia but sometimes when I tell her things seems like she doesn’t get it. Same with I told her my mom was neglectful, emotionally and physically abusive at times but I still miss her. And my therapist was going on and on about what a great grandmother she would have been. it’s hard for me to process all the feelings and I find it strange she would sing the praises of a woman she never knew who could be quite harmful at times.

You can text me any time and we can support each other and rant to each other as well as share positive experiences and new things our kids are doing.. and how we’re feeling…I understand you ^^ please text me how it’s going right now? Have you eaten? If not when are you going to eat? Are you mentally or physically drained? I am…. These weeks have been hard I think my baby is teething but I’m not sure … please message me back how you’re holding up and how it’s going

Can you see a therapist over the phone? I did that before … it might help

Happy belated thanksgiving ❤️

Yikes, girl fire that therapist 😂. Does not sound very helpful!

Sending you love ❤️ I have and continue to feel much of this. My best advice is to do things that make you happy and be so busy doing that you don't leave room for your mind to wander to the negative.

A therapist is nice to have but I can see you’re craving real human connection not someone hired to listen to you etc, it’s not the same as a partner or friend, so I can relate with you on not hitting it off with your therapist or feeling uncomfortable sharing with them etc. hopefully you find someone more suitable soon!

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