Ik he had kids but I basically found out he was living a double life at the same time I found out I was pregnant and he begged for me to take him back and it’s been a year now and I’m happy as can be with out him I wish you the best of luck on everything that’s going on
There would be no adjusting. You do NOT keep a whole arse human from your partner, and you certainly do NOT lie when outright asked. Leave this man and co parent.
That’s a major thing to lie about. I wouldn’t give him another chance to lie