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What do I do going forward, just been broken up with last night. Went out with his steer (who is my friend) for a night out and he rung her saying he doesn’t care and thought I was going to pick him up. I apologised then he said he doesn’t care about me, he doesn’t like me, doesn’t want to be with me, to not contact him and to go sleep with someone else to make it easier. We moved back to our hometown to be closer to family and since he has just been very distant and turns on me at every whip and flip. We have a child together and he didn’t turn up for his birthday, I’ve since been very lonely, having to look after a child alone and spend my evenings alone. He thinks I am cheating on him and keeps saying do what you want but I am gone. I don’t know what to do going forward. I worry I will get back with him if he says the right words.
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Obviously don’t want to put ideas in your head but usually if someone is accusing the other of cheating and you have done nothing to make them distrust you, they have cheated themselves and feel guilt so project it onto you! You deserve so much better than the insults and missing his own son’s birthday, it’ll be horrid at first but you sound better off without him. It’s so easy to go back to someone who isn’t good for you, think about your child and what would be best for them as well as yourself, do you argue a lot with them infront of the child, id it causing you to be upset infront of the child? If it would be better for you and your son without him being in a relationship with you that’s your answer xx
He sounds so immature. You’ve got every right to have some time for yourself and he’s old enough to make his own way around without relying on you to pick him up. Missing his sons birthday is a joke unless he had a valid reason but I doubt he did from the sounds of him, I’d honestly try and let him go it sounds like your better off without him anyway here if you need to talk!