I thought it was going okay but it’s not

Child is 7 months old she is so damn moany everyday. I can’t even sleep in my own bed anymore because when I’m in the room she won’t sleep for hours. I’m trying so hard but always end up distressed and just wanting to just give up. Doesn’t way play with guys don’t wanna sit on my lap . Won’t nap through the day. I can’t do this anymore. I don’t want to anymore. I wish I just didn’t have a child I can’t just give her up and my life goes normal my life goes on with her. When can I get time away I just miss her. I just want to fast forward to 10 years old. Trying to start a buisness but can’t get to just work on it. She won’t play or sit still. Times like this is makes me hate my child father for lying we would be a family and I’d have support but really I’ve done it alone for almost a year. I just wonder why God gave me a child when he knows I can’t handle too much stress when there is woman that can’t have children and could handle it. I’m so fed up I’m so fed up!!!!!

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I felt the same with my first and he’s now three and I have a 10 month old 😂 I promise it does get easier. Have you tried white noise at night with red light? Xx

@Kelsey she’s just so interested she wants to see the light touch the light I doubt that she’s will sleep lol

It’s a very normal feeling. Don’t be disheartened. They have such wingey periods. And it’s so exhausting. Have you started weening? I’ve just hired a nanny and the first thing she said was he needs more protein in his food as he was constantly crying and unsettled restless not playing or sitting just whining!!! A few days in and he’s eating three full meals and a lot better. And sleeping 11/12 hours again. Means now I have to plan meals ahead which feels like another bloody chore but if it helps I’ll do it to stop the moaning 😂 Do you have a good routine? Screw the dad. Don’t even waste energy on that. And amazing you’re starting a business! That’s so exciting!! XXX

@Incognito I haven’t really started but I will definitely take this tip thank you I’ll start giving her properly meals a day and see how it goes I’ll just give her what is at as I’m starting a healthy eating journey

@Incognito tbh not really but it’s hard too with her

@Incognito thank you it really is so far if I can get anything done lol

My son was very “difficult” and clingy. He wouldn’t nap or sleep “properly”. Turns out he has a loooong list of allergies that were affecting him through my breast milk. So be mindful that something like that could be bothering your baby. God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers x (and you will figure it out, and it WILL get much easier)

Honestly start the food. Keep it simple. Toast marmite eggs avocados fruits mash potatoes or just buy the ready made pouches if you don’t have time. She’s probably bored of the milk and it’ll entertain her too sitting in the high chair letting her touch and play with all the food giving you a break to sit and watch something on your phone next to her 😂😂 Good luck with the healthy eating! And with the business something small every day adds up. I’m rooting for you!!

@Saja she’s bottle fed and I haven’t properly started weaning so I don’t think it would be that thank you though

@Incognito okay thank you ! I will definitely try and let you know how it goes she probably is when you think about it she’s 7 months she should be eating realistically

I’m about 90% sure it’ll work, I have sound boxes for my kids which have the light settings. Both my kids prefer brown noise with the red light and they both sleep great with it xx

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