Gamer bf/husband?

Anyone on here have a gamer bf/husband who gets extremely violent on the game?? My bf will curse out lil kids on the game if they start talking shit to him and it’ll be early in the morning. Me, I do curse sometimes but I try not to make it a daily habit for the sake of my child. On top of that I’m a religious/spiritual person and just feel all that hatred and negativity is just doing too much. I’ve tried talking to him about it but he’s the type that just has to get the last word and have the last say. I’m trying to build a positive home and teach my daughter the word and it’s hard when one person in the house “claims” to be a believer but does everything the wrong way. I’ve tried explaining it to him and he still doesn’t make a change I’m starting to feel like he needs somebody that wants to put up with all that. A grown, 29 year old man cursing lil kids out on a game. On top of that we have a son otw and I don’t want my son to be anything like his father. Idk what to do. Advice?
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If he’s as unwilling to see his wrongdoings and change….your only options are to either give him and ultimatum or leave sadly….im sorry 💜

I would honestly see it as a giant red flag that he is cursing out lil kids on video games… I have seen videos of streamers helping little kids and supporting them in games… but to bully an innocent child is cruel. I would leave him since he doesn’t see anything wrong with it. Like what if that was your kids playing grown man on the internet and this man was cursing at your kids… that’s just a very big red flag that can’t be ignored.

@Lyss apparently it was a teenager 13 or 14 that was cursing him out first but still I get you. I’m just tired of him constantly being a bad example for our toddler. Even last night he told somebody on the game “hope you die” bc the person was being racist. I understand feeling angry but if you can’t humble yourself for the sake of your kids it’s something wrong with you. He dk how to walk away

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