A few tips I picked up as I had the same issue: 1) wrap a t-shirt or something that smells like you around the bottle 2) bottle feed your breast milk (which does mean pumping) 3) mix your breast milk with formula (again you’d need to pump) 4) remove yourself from the room when your husband feeds her. Ideally 10mins before so she’s aware of your absence Good luck!
@Lizzie thankyou - we did do all of that when we initially were trying to get her to take the bottle which eventually worked, its more that she was doing it fine and now she's not.. i guess its like starting from scratch. i was hoping it was just an off day!
Following as a facing the same with my lil one