Am I being unreasonable
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I personally don’t feel him talking to a friend about his relationship is unreasonable as that’s what we all do however them outing you and making you feel uncomfortable and not being able to “pretend” they hadn’t had that conversation while you wasn’t there your right to be pissed about it 100% !
I agree with Kelly- not wrong for him to confide in a friend but it is definitely wrong for him to do it whilst you are in their company so you feel put on the spot and then stuck in that uncomfortable situation. Also his phrasing saying you are ‘on the rocks’ makes it seem as though the relationship may not make it which makes it a lot more than just an argument. He didn’t need to tell you he had spoken about it and he definitely didn’t need to phrase it like that x
There’s absolutely a time and a place to discuss relationship issues and of course he will want to talk to his friend but at a meal with you all there that is totally inappropriate
I feel like it’s fine for him to have told his friend because that’s what we all do with our friends and if you’re there it’s awkward but it was unfair for the atmosphere to have changed and them to make you feel awkward!
I don’t even think this is a question. Of course anyone would feel uncomfortable…