Baby shower blues

I keep looking at tik toks imaging what my baby shower would have been like if I had one. I had everything picked out. From the dress I would wear to the decorations, and down to the cake and treats. I left no stone unturned when picking out things…..but as life never goes my way……..what once was definitely going to happen is not even a possibility now and after 2 boys and finally getting my girl. I wanted the moon and stars for this one

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Why couldn’t you have your baby shower :( ?

Lost our place, lost our car, living in a motel 6…..boyfriend had a near death experience which kept him from working and getting paid for 3 weeks…….money problems on top of money problems…..its honestly something that we cant afford rn. Just looking at similar ideas on tik tok wishing i was able to

Aww sorry to hear that. So you didn’t have one with any of your kids or just your last one?

@Jennifer just this one I’m pregnant with

I didn't get a baby shower with this one either & the last one was kind of a train wreck & this is my last kid. I'm sad that I'll never get a baby shower like all the ones I've been to because no one cares about me or my children. So I definitely feel you.

Maybe hold on to some of the ideas and you might be able to use them for little one’s first birthday or something?