Does anyone else partner make them feel like shit?

I’m sick of my partner constantly making me feel sh*t, his made me feel small 101 times including in front of his parents, friends and now my work colleagues. I do my up most to be the best mum to my little one but he constantly puts me down. Does anyone else’s partner put them down all the time and make it feel like they don’t do enough?
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Not anymore . My current partner wouldn’t dream of it , he’s proud in every aspect of my life . Whether I got up & that’s all I did & kept my daughter alive that’s enough . My ex however used to do it & it’s so draining on your soul . I hope you get the support you need and please don’t let it sit on your soul too long x

Like @Chloe said it is draining on your soul. I really feel for you - I know what it’s like to feel completely downtrodden, disrespected and to be honest, abused by a partner. Is something going on with him? Is this new? I’ve found sometimes people just have a really weird and awful way of expressing themselves if they’re feeling crap. Not to excuse him at all as he should not treat you this way!!

I’m sorry you’re being made to feel like this and it’s not ok. Being a parent is 50/50 and parents should support one another in that. This isn’t the 1920s. I remember panicking in the early stages cos I wasn’t doing enough around the house even those other half was back at work- then I realised being at home with LO is super hard and if someone doesn’t know that that’s on them. Don’t feel bad for what stuff you do outside of looking after LO- that’s easily a full time job and then some

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