Relationship connections

I didn't with my exs but do with my fiance. A hug means so much more and sex is a more deeper meanful connection than before too.

I've had it with 3 relationships. You're only feeling like this now because you've only had 1 boyfriend. Trust me you will experience it again and the next time you could even compare it to the last and be like wow I thought I felt like that then but this connection feels way deeper. That's how I feel now for example, my current relationship is by far the healthiest relationship I have ever been in. Everything with him just feels a thousand times better ❤️

@Megan thank you ❤️ even though he was very toxic I still feel like we had a deep connection

Had plenty of boyfriends and have felt truly "in love" like this with about 3 of them. Your feeling this way because you've only had one partner, I have found that the older I get the deeper the connections can be because I am more self aware, confident and know what I want out of a relationship. You'll find a new love, but focus on healing and your own personal growth and the type of love you are looking for will follow.

@Elise I’ve been doing so well and then many months later it hit me like a wave again. I just have nothing to compare. If another love will feel like soulmates

I feel like my first few relationships were me settling. My now relationships is deeper and more connected than I've ever had and consider him my one and only. Everything just makes sense with us.

What I feel with my fiancé I never felt before.. however with each relationship I was in I was love bombed with all the things I thought I wanted and after a few months it would go away that my friend is lust 😮‍💨

You’re feeling what you feel because you still love them. Take the lessons you learned and move on… because you never finding the right person isn’t a real thing. You will when it’s time for you too.

I thought I had that with my ex and I was in the same boat as you thinking I’d never find something like it again, but my connection with my husband feels so much deeper and more meaningful than I could’ve imagined. It’s unexplainable really. You’ll find someone else!

I understand that, my ex was toxic and I was engaged to him. You'll find your healthy love, you know now what red flags to look out for. But yeah you'll definitely find it again :)

@Chloe so with your ex you felt like it was a strong deep connection like you could be soulmates? But now you found that in your husband and it’s even stronger and deeper than that?

When I got with my husband I realised I’d never really been in love. I thought I loved the others but I really didn’t! It was very very very different with my husband best way to describe it is almost spiritual… like I couldn’t even stop the feelings if I wanted to… it’s took over both of us and we just went along with it and continue to go along with it. We don’t control it, it controls us.

@Zaza that’s how I felt with my ex expect he was born extremes of loving and toxic

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Oh hun I hear u! That’s hard. I say give urself time apart and just try to imagine a life without him a peaceful one and just get by day by day… I always say if he’s urs he will always be urs no matter what and no matter how much time u spend apart, but if he’s not urs then no matter how hard u try it won’t work. Focus on u and pray for him. Wish u all the best 💕💕

@Zaza thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words God bless ❤️

I've had it with all 6 of my relationships, some more than others.

Yeah. I was afraid I’d never get that feeling again but I found something even better with someone I’m actually compatible with.