Transition Period

My toddler is 27 months and our newborn is almost 1 month. Its been challenging transitioning at home. One night it goes well the next it sucks, its just so much at once. We knew it was going to be hard but its been overwhelming and I forgot how much lack of sleep there is plus keeping up with everything else (pumping, bottle cleaning, chores the house etc). My toddler also has his own health issues that require a lot of attention so were just spread thin. When did you finally feel like you were in a good groove with 2 littles? Does that even exist? 😓