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@Jennifer My husband is way too playful and open often, I feel like it's so easy for a girl to think he is flirting with them because it's very natural for him. So I am a bit annoyed he accepted the offer, I personally can't imagine, within 15 minutes of knowing my new colleague, offering him to babysit wth😬
Yeah it’s very inappropriate esp since he knows there’s no need for a babysitter. Making her think it’s ok to come over is very weird and her being so willing is questionable as well. I’d make it clear to him to remain professional at work. Coworkers don’t need to know your business or be in your home.
Well I think using a baby sitter he had just met is weird, but on the other hand within 15 minutes he had already told his colleague about you and his kids which is pretty sweet that it’s the first thing he spoke about. Maybe he was just trying to help (even if it wasn’t needed) and let you know he’s thinking of you and the kids. You mention he’s trusting by nature which is a flaw, so maybe just have a chat with him about why he wants another baby sitter? Could there be something about the current babysitter he doesn’t agree with even though you are happy with her?
Why would some random lady babysit? He’s way too trusting of her like is he ok? 😅