Don’t be mad at the messenger

What’s the point of posting this?

They’re gonna drag you

Very insensitive

@Rose literally 🙆🏽‍♀️

@Shayna to ruffle up some feathers sorry not sorry 😂😂

@Rose they need to drag themselves to the nearest clinic 😂😂😂😂 I won’t have a man kid and he begged me to get rid of it and especially when he doesn’t already take care of his other children like what would make me think I’m any different??

@Kiiaa if I’m very insensitive then you guys are selfish and stuck on stupid and the step dad dreams! kids want their real dads! As a school counselor and what I hear from these kids YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED!!

Lmao, half the men who “wanted to be dad’s” are deadbeats too though. 🤷🏽‍♀️

I really don’t understand why women do this. I hope whatever made you wanna make this post gets better and resolves itself. Cause you really didn’t have to do all this. So many people you could come for. And then to do it anonymously? I always say to say it w your chest or shut up, but people find amusement in being a coward. Shame

Hunny my ex BEGGED for a child and begged me to keep him. Only for him to become a deadbeat when I had him.

@𝓛𝓮𝓷𝓪 ✨ you don’t know the difference between pillow talking and reality? I had exes who always talked about having a kid with me and talked bout how much they always wanted a boy first then a girl and I always knew they were saying it to say it and didn’t actually know how much it actually takes to raise a kid.

@Monét women need to hold other women accountable 😘😘 all 2025 !!

@Samantha Meyer you couldn’t tell the difference between him just wanting you to have a kid to slow you down and make you attached to him for life ????

So hold yourself accountable and stop projecting whatever mood you’re in. It’s just negativity for amusement and that is beyond childish. And you’re a school counselor? Would your employer hire people who talk like this on the internet? It’s just weird lmao unprovoked and aggressive for what

@Monét they need therapy themselves clearly 😬

Its giving I just wanna be a troll today

@OP I guess I don’t know the difference because I personally haven’t been in that situation. 😅 Luckily, I don’t have a deadbeat baby daddy. That being said, there is just too many factors as to why women end up with a deadbeat baby daddy. You’re just sitting there blaming women for it. As if the men don’t need to be held accountable for their actions. It takes two to make a child so how can only women be the blame? Obviously, women keeping babies after the man clearly states he doesn’t want a child is completely different. But, even then she didn’t sit there and get herself pregnant. So, as a man he still has an obligation to still take care of that baby even if it’s just financially.

@Monét btch a felon is the president!!!! I think I know how to separate my personal life and professional life just like him 😂😂😂 and I wouldn’t go posting this on Google classroom!!!!! I seen this on Facebook and thought i should repost on here for a few laughs and giggles!!!!!! My feet kicked up laughing and my husband is in the playroom cleaning up with our LO!!!!! the only ones mad is the single moms

@Becky make sure to sign your kids up for therapy too! bastards going to grow up to feel unloved with daddy issues because mommy choices!!!! step dad don’t replace the real dad!!! It doesn’t matter how great the step dad is and how much he includes the bonus child!!!! A KID IS GOING TO WANT THEIR REAL DAD LOVE AND AFFECTION !!!!!

Imagine a happily married mom coming to a mom app to laugh at single mothers. It’s WEIRD. Girl go be with your baby and your husband instead of coming for women who are minding their business 😭

Girl whatever never said you was wrong it's still insensitive

Just be glad you aren’t in this situation and those single moms are doing double the work loving their babies because the dad chose not to be in the baby’s life even if he took part in making it. If you wanna post shit like this don’t go anonymous lmao

I am still in a relationship with her father and our baby was very much wanted by both of us😬 I dont think this woman is a happily married woman haha

@Monét I have two friends that’s single moms and we all laugh about this before!!!! YOU FEEL ATTACKED AND I AM NOT SORRY FOR THAT!!!! FIX YOUR LIFE AND ATTITUDE ABOUT THE SITUATION YOU CREATED!!!!

@Kiiaa that’s the problem with the world! I AM NOT GOING TO SUGAR COAT TO NOT HURT FEELINGS !! SOMETIMES WE NEED OUR FEELINGS HURT TO SEE THE BIGGER PICTURE OR THE TRUTH !!!!

@Becky good for you!!!!! go hug him tight!!!!!

The fact that you seem to think that having kids slows somebody down, says a lot about you and nothing about me. He is not tied to me, and im not tied to him because he signed away his rights.

@Samantha Meyer a baby absolutely slows you down from physically to mentally, Google is free and the research is there!!! I never said it will slow you down forever and YES A SMART MAN!! I wish more deadbeats would sign away their rights completely

Why would your single mom friends sit and laugh at other single moms with you? birds of a feather because that’s even more weird lol. And you have a full time job?

@Monét I never said they laughed at other single moms WE LAUGH AT THEIR SITUATION AND EVEN MINE LIKE WE HOLD EACH OTHER ACCOUNTABLE NO MATTER WHAT WHILE GETTING A FEW LAUGHS !!! THEY KNOW FOR A FACT THEY SHOULDVE LISTENED TO THEIR GUTS AND RAN FOR THE HILLS AND THEY KNOW HOW MUCH MORE WORK THEY HAVE TO DO TO NOT MAKE THEIR KIDS FEEL SHITTY AND WORTHLESS WHEN THEY GET OLDER !!

yeah whoever your main account is, please avoid me. This is so freaking strange. It reminds me of that 22 year old “happily married woman with a son” that used to come into this group to make posts exactly like yours

@Monét 😂😂😂😂 I hang with single hoes, married hoes, lawyers, strippers, good women without kids and terrible women with kids that doesn’t affect me one bit!!!! never will be birds of a feather but they all have good up personality and know about loyalty!!!! and no a part timeeeeee! I don’t even have to work, I just chose too so I wouldn’t be bored while my LO at school for 10 hours and so I won’t have to hear hubby mouth bout me maxing his credit cards on my silly anime collection 😂😂😂😂😂 but I know you do so get back to work babesssss

Lmaooooo what 😭 yeah I went to school for a very long time so I better be working a full time job tf lmao

1 million dollars says you are either a deadbeat father or the SO of one lmao.

this is giving jealous bd gf energy

I feel like if the dad isn’t around whatsoever and made that clear from the start, no issue, he’s the sperm donor. If he comes and goes and decides he wants to be around one week and doesn’t for the next month, that’s a deadbeat

Plenty of married women with husbands who wanted children that end up deadbeats too. So this post just screams I’m a narrow minded person that’s about an inch deep and a mile wide.

I feel like people are taking this wrong, she isn’t talking about every man with kids, just the ones who asked yall for abortions and then disappeared when you made your choice. Everyone deserves a choice

@LaToya Not everyone believes in abortions so it’s still uncalled for. Also, what if they used every precaution like bc/condoms, and the women still ended up pregnant? Just because he doesn’t want a child means she should abort the baby? Obviously, it’s not fair for the man if he didn’t want kids but life happens and they’re both responsible.

@𝓛𝓮𝓷𝓪 ✨ never said she had to abort, but if the sperm donor makes it clear that he ain’t going to be a part of it, he’s a sperm donor, not a deadbeat in my eyes. If we as women should have the decision to have this baby or not, they should have the decision to be a part of the babies life or not

@𝓛𝓮𝓷𝓪 ✨ I don’t believe she’s telling people to get an abortion, I think she’s just saying that if they asked for one, you shouldn’t badmouth them for sticking to their decision to not be around. That’s how I’ve decided to take this post and if you have a different opinion you are completely entitled to that :)

@LaToya I completely understand that but if that circumstance were to happen he is at least obligated to financially support that child. Say he told her in advance he didn’t want children, they do the deed, condom breaks and she became pregnant. Should he not have any responsibility for that child tho?

@𝓛𝓮𝓷𝓪 ✨ I think it’s based on situation, personally my bd isn’t on the birth certificate and doesn’t pay anything because he has no part in our son’s life. And my son is thriving and that’s all that matters to me, I make it work and I won’t call him a deadbeat unless he makes the decision to come into my child’s life and then leaves

I also don’t know all his details so I couldn’t make him be on it even if I wanted to

👏🏼it dont make sense to me to force a child on a man that CLEARLY dont want it 💯 especially when women can literally DIE giving birth and you think im finna do that for a man that dont even want my child to begin with!?!? Hell nahh im popping that pill and flushing down the toilet 😭👏🏼 he was a deadbeat before the baby arrived and they be thinking when they get here its gonna change silly rabbits 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ deal with the consequences and hush

I bet it has some to do with the man SHES with. That’s why she’s mad 😭😭 the call is coming from INSIDE THE HOUSE

@Ruby but isn’t this your exact situation? I just would think you’d come from a place of empathy being as though you will be solo parenting. When your baby gets here, do you think it’ll be less hard for you because you know you’re the sole caretaker? I’m just trying to understand where the projection is coming from. And so loudly

@Monét not at all lmao you don’t know me from a can of paint boo . My bd was just here with his son so speak on what YOU know and not assume 🙂‍↕️

omg you suck lol

@Ruby sigh. Did I not ask a question??? What am I speaking on???? The angst