Is it normal?

I will delete this if it is inappropriate.. but my question is.. embarrassing.. Is it normal to have way less of a sex drive, for both of us after having our little one? I still have some but not as much as before.. and it seems like he has none..only doing it twice since our son was born ...
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I was like that the first year. Heck we both were. I still have a lower sex drive than I did before but it’s slowly getting better. You’re busy all day mentally and physically draining. Don’t worry it’ll come back…saying not to worry for both of us lol

Yes. You guys are tired and all energy is going into baby and to keep the house running and your jobs. Before baby you guys had the time and energy to focus on you two and to spend that quality time together. Now that’s on the back burner. But that won’t be the case forever. If you feel comfortable you could have someone watch baby so you guys can spend one on one time together. Doesn’t have to be anything sexual but that’ll help bring that “spark” back a bit

Also hard to do things with a needy toddler around 😆

I didn't have much drive before kid let alone after. Especially that first year when I was breastfeeding/pumping. He still has drive, so I try and set aside us time because I know he likes it. Sometimes it feels like a chore but I know it brings us closer. I know that probably doesn't help.

Yes....also if your in bc it can cause low drive.. And some other things. Ur not alone. My husband is in his prime and I'm 👩‍🦳

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