I had this happen to me as well. Went from being so independent and having money in my account and friends to suddenly him using is having kids as a way to take control. You’re not being over sensitive at all. It’s a harsh fall, and doesn’t mean we love our kids any less. Feel free to DM me
I don’t want be the one saying it but his controlling you at this point u don’t really need to be with someone like this u can do much better