Don’t pay attention to what others have to say. I love hearing the bits and pieces of my villain story. Have no problem being the villain for your children but also make sure you are making that aren’t purely emotion based. I understand the frustration of dad’s ability to pick and choose when they get to show up. If you do agree for the kids to visit I would ensure you text him that he agreed to watch the kids whatever days and that he will responsible for having everything the kids need. That’s messed up of the family members to plan that behind your back. I wouldn’t let them take the kids.
What a spiteful asshole! I’d screenshot everything he says and the fact he thinks he doesn’t need to pay for his children then when people have something to say show it to them! He’s playing the victim when he’s not being a proper father
@Sam took me a while to realise but he would call me with things he knew could be held against him if it was in text. He had help from his sister for these things. I spent 12 years with this man and only over the last 1 and a half years realised the tactics he was using. So now I don’t answer phone calls and just don’t respond to any texts at all. When it comes to our texts I’ve never said anything bad parent wise. But towards him as a person I have been aggressive and angry.
Don’t listen to Them . ATP no matter what you do they are gonna find a reason to say you’re wrong. So just do what you want and 🖕🏼 em . You know what’s best for your kids . If you feel the need to explain anything to them a simple “don’t speak on what you don’t know traitor “ will suffice