Why do men have to constantly have half naked, naked, or porn like pics/videos flooding their feeds?

I don't mind my SO looking that fine and i don't mind porn but fuck. He has naked women every where! All over his Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, reddit, Instagram feed and still watches porn everyday! Like what the fuck is that? I asked him why he has to have naked women flooding his feeds on every app and he says he doesn't need it he just wants it and im like why? He won't give me a straight answer as to why he wants it. It's honestly kind of annoying. Like here and there seeing a sexy pic fine but every other post or constant posts of it, im not a fan of.
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Men are truly wired differently. If it bothers you that much. I'd talk to him about it. Set some boundaries and if he doesn't follow break up/create some space.

He needs a hobby that’s what. My mans feed is all bowling, cars, motorbikes, male comedians, fishing, golfing stuff he has so many interests and hobbies that yes sometimes girls does pop up but that’s part of the average males’ algorithm (just like mine a dancing half naked male sometimes pops up) but it’s not every second reel. Also, if he wants to see booty or pussy he’s got mine on his phone in his hidden folder, I’ve sent to him.

To be honest, your mans feeds are filled with what he interacts with. If he likes, comments, or even clicks on it often, his ads and feeds will fill with it. For instance, while you were pregnant, your feeds filled with baby things. Like my husbands feeds are filled with relationships, animals, food, and baby things because that's what he interacts with.

He's going to get all irritated about it. It might not be worth the fight. Unfortunately, men are horn dogs

@Keisha I agree! His pages are made by what he interacts with. If that’s what he wants fine, but he either need to give OP a reason or she needs to realize they may not be compatible if it bothers her and he won’t change.

@Ashley yeah that’s why I mentioned he needs a hobby/interest because as soon as he types up cars or motorbikes etc his whole feed will change in an instant. It’s what he likes and comments it’s curated just for him. A guy w no other interest but girls is a red flag to me. Like doesn’t he have ANYTHING he likes, wants to learn or see other than girls? Cooking even. Whatever.

@Kellie very true. The fact he won’t answer her or take that it upsets her into consideration is a red flag for me. It’s one thing to have all of that, but if you can’t give your partner an answer or see the issue when they’re upset that’s a problem. Definitely needs a hobby. My bf hardly had social media and what little he does is all gamer nerd stuff or about the books he likes.

A few here and there is normal for the male algorithm, even if they’re not looking for it but if it’s flooded with it then he’s definitely interacting with that content all the time, which is a red flag to me. Not all guys are like that though. My husband’s feed is mainly sports, finance, daddy prep and goofy videos lol.

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