Should I tell my landlord I'm pregnant?

Hi!
So I have a particular housing situation in which we rent a room in a 3-storey house. It's just the 2 of us in the house. There is one guest room we can use for guests or if the landlord wanted to ever use it (we have a special deal).

My landlord is very particular, he already doesn't like the fact that we work from home, because we pay very little rent (the house is unfinished). I fear what he will say when he hears we're having a baby. We plan to have him in our room, in a cot, and wouldn't use any of the other rooms for him in the first year of his life and then we'll probably leave the house/London.

Should I tell him (and when?)? Has he any right to evict me if he finds out?

I want to do the right thing but I don't want to end up homeless. Thanks.

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You do not need to tell your landlord!

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Generally, no. You don't need to tell your landlord. But it sounds like you've got a very unusual agreement. Is there actually a contract?

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yes, we do have a contract, it does say no pets but nothing about babies! Haha

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well we also have a studio room where we work, a living room, a big kitchen and a garden. We can use all of that. We just can't use another room permanently for a baby or anybody else.

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I'm not sharing the house with anyone. It's just me and my partner and the guest room is empty.

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Normally no but it sounds like you are more of a lodger than a tennant so maybe?

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