Lack of sex
I’m on multiple medications that have side affects of lack of sex drive . My partner wants lots of it and get hard over little things which can be nice to help my confidence. But what can I do when I’m just not feeling any sex drive towards anything right now . Pleaseeeeee help with suggestions . The whole just doing it for him doesn’t help it makes me enjoy it much less than normal. Sorry for the weird message
What things do you want to do? Are hand job and blow job only an option? If not then he's going to have to respect your lack of drive. But for me my biggest thing even we are lacking sex is to still get the intimacy in somewhere. For me this is skin to skin naked cuddles. I'd love for my partner to still do stuff with me like mutual masterbation, or watching me masterbate, or even purely using toys on me, but for him that's a no go so naked cuddles are our compromise.