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If he stood up for me we wouldn’t break up but if he didn’t we would break up
I think there's a big difference between husband and boyfriend, which is relevant to this question!
@Parker 又 theyre not worthy of ur time tbh
Yes. I don’t need everyone to like me but if none of your family or friends like me as a person or me for you then we have a problem. I don’t want my spouse to have to choose between me and everyone else they love.
What’s the reason?
I've been called problematic because I stood up for myself 🤷🏻♀️ I come from a very different background than my partners family.... they're all heavy drinkers, like to fight, my mil upside down twerks on walls and pole dances if there's a pole around 😂 and bc I don't partake I'm " stuck up". I used to lose sleep over it, but now I could care less.
@Rachel not in my opinion. His family didn’t put me in the family calendar because we are not married but they add my kid who was born out of wedlock lol So I gotta get married to be treated and liked properly. But…I been married before, def not doing it again. It sucks waiting to get divorced.
What 🤯 not liking someone because they’re not “married” is so old fashioned these days I mean plenty of people live de-facto happily and never married, it’s not a valid excuse not to like someone imo. My brother has a gf that they’re just dating, (she’s gorgeous and humble and is a kinder teacher, love her) and my sister has 3 kids and not married and we all like her partner 💁🏻♀️ he’s good for her. If they are judging because you’re not “married” then frankly I could do without that judgement in my life and just not see them. Not liking someone’s’ personality is way different to not liking them simply because of their status.
As in, none of his friends/family like me? If everyone in his life hated me I dunno, that’s kind of a red flag tbh But if it’s like just one or two, then I’d stand my ground as long as he stood alongside me and supported me
Op, you’re currently married to someone else and not their friend/relative?
No I don't care because at the end of the day, it's really what my husband wants.
For me personally, when you marry someone you also marry their family. If they were horrible, it would be a deal breaker for me.
Even if you got married, they’d still leave you out of the calendar. TRUST! They’re just using that as an excuse. Reality is they don’t like you. Which is fine girl! I personally don’t let people around me or my kid when I know they don’t like me, but I wasn’t always like that. I used to deal with people out of obligation but it just got old and at the end of the day felt like I was disservicing myself by keep going.
Your partner has to be on board though. Personally I wouldn’t be with someone that dealt with their family treating me poorly and still encouraged us to see them.
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@Dana 🦅♥️🤍💙 I was married to another man before this guy I’m with now. Different guy. Tbh I really don’t want to marry anyone else. To marry someone you have a child with just makes things complicated if a divorce happened. Way too much drama that I refuse to do. They don’t like me because of the bullshit fights we was getting into for a while and he would go tell everybody making me the bad guy. Which wasn’t fair. People I don’t even know, never even met them before. It bothers me because I feel like we won’t live a “normal” life with family and friends since they don’t like me. Also my kid, how do I allow him around his family when that family doesn’t even like me.
@Eviee reason being, they don’t want him to have someone who exposes the truth about anything. His family has raised him but he was never disciplined or anything. I come from a family where if I did something bad I got disciplined. Sometimes people don’t hear another side to the story so they form an opinion on you that’s never going away. When we get into it he will go talk to his friends about me and they think wow that’s not right even though he didn’t say what his part was in that situation. I’m so sick of it. Makes me feel paranoid as hell because I’m not sure everyone he has told crap too. I’m a person that’s against telling people relationship arguments because I know my family and friends would form opinions and it’s a strain on everyone
Yeh I wouldn’t waste my time with him for everything you just mentioned to me. Everything would just be bonus reasons as to why I’d leave lol.
If I was told I was seen as an embarrassment I wouldn’t want to burden them with being near me. 🤗 and that’s on standing my ground.