Anyone experienced the anxiety of having someone hold your baby and they refuse to give them back when they are crying ??
If so how do you handle it ? Need advice as I really struggle with how to react or respond. Especially when people debate and argue that they are ok and “just fussing”
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I guess for me it just depends on the amount of time. Like if they just got them then I’d let them try a few things to calm them. And if it didn’t work then I would ask for them back. But in my case most the people around me don’t like holding a crying baby. I wish they would try a little harder. 😂
I think I would literally just grab the baby. You don't need their permission
Just be firm. Don’t say please, just put your arms out and say: “I need you to give me my baby back right now.” Alternatively, address the baby instead. “You want your mummy? Ok, come to mummy.” It’s surprisingly hard to argue with that one.
When I was a 1st time mom I did but after the 2nd & 3rd one idgaf tbh😂😂Keep'em!!!
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If I can tell it’s more than just fussing then I’ll tell the person I’ll take my daughter back. If they say no and try to calm them and it doesn’t work, I would personally say something like, “Thanks for trying but she needs her mom right now.” And I’d take her back without asking. You know your child best!