Husband called me squishy
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@Izzie exactly!! Like I understand I don’t have the body I used to and I didn’t see it back then but I was underweight and to constantly compare that version of me to postpartum me seems unfair.
i’m sorry he’s making you feel down! breastfeeding can also your affect weight but that’s totally normal. he should care about your health more than looks :/ you’re right it’s not fair to compare
:( I wouldn't be okay with that either. Especially if it's happening pretty often. Regardless of how he means it, joking or not, what matters is how it makes you feel. If the way he talks about you doesn't feel okay to you, then it's just plain not okay and that's valid.
I get too pissed off for others, so i am sorry if this is crossing a line. He sounds like an asshole. You just grew his child. You take care of his child. You STILL LOOK GOOD. But even if you didn't, if he respected you, he wouldn't be putting you down for your appearance. You've been pp less time than you were pregnant. Tell him to shut tf up until he's given life. He's not joking, he's putting you down and avoiding accountability by calling it a joke.
@Chey thank you💖💖
You've told him it bothers you so at this point it is bullying. Even if it were just a joke, which is being pretty generous to him in my opinion, its a pretty bad joke when nobody else is laughing. You look great btw. Your body just did an amazing thing. Work out for how you feel not because of this idiots opinions.
@Katelynn thank you
This "squishy" ass carried your child m**f** lol Btw, you're totally beautiful, not squishy. He's a dick. You should tell him to be a better role model for his child because one day they might think they're squishy... Or might call someone squishy.
@Rachelle thank you💖💖
He’s a piece of shit
@Katelynn exactly it’s not even funny, talking about your partners appearance like that and talking down on them when they been through a lot mentally and physically to bring your child in this world.
See, this makes me feel bad now. My 3 year old daughter has the squishiest cheeks. I call her my “squishy bits” or my “squishy girl”. I mean it affectionately, not as a bullying thing. I’m sorry you have opened up about how his comments make you feel & he disregards your feelings. Is there a gym local to you that has childcare? I would totally be petty & get a hot, male personal trainer & rub it in his face, but again I’m petty lol.
@Katie I think it’s all about intentions. You definitely don’t intend to be mean when speaking about your child so I’d say continue but in his case it feels mean. so we used to work out together actually before the baby and then during pregnancy he was my trainer. The childcare takes toddlers not babies so I can’t go quite yet which is why I workout at home. He built a gym for us
The grass is greenest where it is watered if you are not feeling your best maybe that is a reflection of how he is treating you I think you look beautiful before and after you grew and birthed a human and are actively still nourishing YOU did that not him hold your head high ❤️
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Well shit, sorry for birthing your offspring you jackass.. Men, I swear
He's been an insensitive dickhead, I'd be so angry! I've easily gained 2 stone since I met my fiance, but he still says I'm the sexiest woman he's been with! I'm trying to look after myself, but it's so hard when you have a baby, plus i have 2 other kids aswell. Tell him to piss off the next time he makes a comment!
I get so mad at husbands and significant others over this. I’m personally in a drought of working out and have gained the weight I had lost and I don’t feel good about my body but my husband if I speak badly he goes stone wall and defends my own body against my mind. I wouldn’t be okay with him making any comments like that either hun! You are still beautiful in each picture and he’s being an ass.
He is being really insensitive. I have a squishy tummy (I was never toned, but it's definitely squishier), and I say this to my husband a lot. He just brushes it off and could care less. I have given him 2 children and he understands that my body had changed. He loves me as I am, and would never say anything like that to me. I'm sorry your husband continues to say these things
Urgh your husband is being a dick. You literally gave him a child and your body adjusted to grow and care for that child. I honestly believe that as women we are meant to be softer and squishy so we are a comfort to our children. Little children want to be wrapped up on the boob and a nice soft tummy!
He’s being absolutely trash! You are stunning mama You carried a human being! An entire human literally grew from smaller than a pin in that body! I’m fuming for you
@Luba thank you💖💖
Now the "when are you going to the gym" comments and things like that would definitely piss me off, but my family and I have always used the word Squishy in a very enduring way. I have personally only heard people use the word Squishy in a good way. Squishy is beautiful ❤️ But regardless, the bottom line is that you have asked him to stop something and he hasn't, and that's not cool. :( I'm sorry he's being so disrespectful of your feelings
he’s so insensitive!! how do some men not understand that it’s perfectly normal for a woman’s body to change during pregnancy and postpartum. you’re taking care of yourself and that’s what should be important. it’s really unfair for him to comment on your body like that, especially after you’ve told him how it makes you feel