Does your other half give you an orgasm?

Asking as I’ve been with my partner 10+ years and he has only given me an orgasm twice. Not sure if this is normal

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I’m always first. He’s not satisfied til I’m satisfied 🥰

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I use to get them every time but since I had a kid it's every once in a while

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I orgasm more than he does. We don’t have sex without the intention to make me satisfied. I’d be very sad and confused if he didn’t want to make me orgasm every time we have sex.

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100%, every time.
He cares even more about making sure it happens than I do!😅

Your partners track record does not sound normal to me, especially not if you’ve expressed that it bothers you!!

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Not orgasming from penetration is normal. My other half always adds in other methods to get me off

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…never…cause it’s extremely hard and I just can’t. Not without toy.

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Not from penetration alone as no one ever has- not even myself with toys😅 but he always used his hands to make me cum x

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Does he know that? If not, you should tell him and found out how to work this out. That's ok not to orgasm every single time but that's not normal no almost never orgasm. Stimulation is probably not made right

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I was with my bd for 7 years and I’d be lying if I said it was good every time 😂😂😂

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Almost everytime. Usually he can’t finish if I haven’t. I would def talk to him as a general conversation, try to bring up things that you would like to try or change. Maybe don’t tell him off the bat that it’s only been twice

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It sounds like he’s selfish. Sex is a mutual thing. If he is only concerned about him getting off I would be pissed.

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We aren’t having sex til he does lol

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Im a meanie, no one gets anything until i cum first 😂

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Never internally but he usually does his thing then finishes me in other ways, I do get one or multiple organisms every single time though, everyone should, sex is supposed to be good!

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Rarely as I’m too impatient to go on and on and on🤣 so if he hasn’t time he’s close I help speed it along till I’m at that point and he can then finish for the both of us🫣

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