What would you do ?

My partner and i have had our ups and down and mostly it’s been on his side from not respecting my boundaries and breaking promises. We have a 19 month old pending evaluation for autism. My son is very attached to both of us. However his dad is almost like another child to me. He has mocked me in the past when he’s mad and this instance was when i asked him to help me clean…. Yesterday i was upset bc he came late from a fishing trip and i had made a nail appointment and wanted to have a day to myself for context He is a mechanic … i was having car problems specifically for my battery , I’m not a prideful person and even if i were mad and he needed my help i would help him. Once i told him about my car problems he told me to “figure it out” this obviously infuriated me. Then it got me thinking of all the other times I’ve had to figure it out, he doesn’t help at home unless i ask him. There are times when there are 2-3 laundry baskets full and it will be his day off and he will not help, the same goes with the dishes. He has maybe cooked for me once or twice that we’ve lived together which will be 3 years. I feel like I’m mentally checked out… do i leave? What about my son? Will this hurt him more ? I love him but i don’t think I’m in love with him anymore. I’ve threatened to leave him multiple times i just can’t find the courage to do it

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Are we the same person....? What's your man's name HAHA mine is braiden

He sounds like my bf too.... yep leave is the best option he will continue to disrespect you if you keep letting him and you'll lose your self worth xx

Ide first try communicating that you need more help. That you need to be able to count on him even when he is mad at you. He is not a child and needs to start acting like it. He sounds like how my bf was, but It took some time but I had to break down exactly what I need from him, and he’s starting to be more help, some days are better then others. But if yours shows no signs of changing for you or yalls baby then it might be better to know you are alone then think you have his help and at the end of the day not. Sometimes they cause more work then it is worth. But again for yalls child I would try and communicate and dumb it down for him and if he doesn’t want yalls family to separate he needs to grow up.

Girl I'm going through the same thing.. us women get tired .. especially us mom's with kids that we doing most in the house .. buying grocery, washing clothes, cooking.. what else do they want lol

I’m going through the same thing, I’ve tried talking to him but he only gets mad because he isn’t getting what he wants but then wonders why I don’t want to do anything with him

@Stephanie yeah I haven't been sexually active since baby was born and it's been 8 months now. Really sucks at this point.

@Esperanza Rios I haven’t had sex with my partner since I was 5 months pregnant and I’m 9 months now, and I won’t be having sex with him again until he pulls his head out of his ass

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