Incognito on Peanut: Partner advice

Incognito · 2025-04-15T22:03Z

I’m currently 4 weeks PP. My partner has been back to work for two weeks. I am the one who is awake most of the night with our baby and during the day. He talks about sex non stop, how I’m not giving him enough attention. I explain to him he really has no idea how demanding motherhood is. When I have free time, all I want to do is sleep. With all the physical changes I’ve been through, navigating life as a new mother, my whole life has changed. His is basically the same plus three nappy changes after work. We’ve spoken endlessly and he does not understand my point of view. What can I do to help him understand? I feel disrespected and lost.