Intimacy Issue! Help!!
I posted this on other group too. I am almost 11 months post partum exclusively breastfeeding mum.
Whenever my husband try to have sex with me with little or no foreplay i dont wanna do it. Actually even when he does foreplay i dont wanna do it. If he bites me lightly instead being turn on(i used to like it) i just wanna punch him in the face, scream and again punch him in his nuts! I get so angry that i almost see red. I get my high just handful number of times, is this can be reason of me getting frustrated from sex? I dont know what to do? Is there something wrong with me? I do love my husband but when it comes to sex i just wanna scream at tge top of my lungs and just go violent on him!
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I breastfed for two years and my little is 2 years and a few months now and I’m just kind of getting interest again.
You are simply stressed, nothing to do with the breastfeeding hormones. You need some time for yourself and after everything will come back to normal.
Your hormones from giving birth alone take two years to get back to baseline. You’re breast feeding still as well so that’s also factoring in. It’s frustrating, but normal. You may want to talk to your doctor or a therapist to see if there’s anything that can help sooner, but this isn’t out of the norm.